Ok, I've decided to create my first blog to express my musings, rants, as well as practice my typing. As a semi-retired night-time musician with a day job, I have been finding myself itching to play more than I have been. The deal is that I became a daddy to a beautiful baby girl a year and a half ago. I love my daughter, and I love being a daddy (so don't misinterpret otherwise, please), but I used to gig out at least once a week in my pre-daddy days and I miss it. Nowadays I'm doing no gigs except for the very occasional substitute or getting down to the open jam (where I used to be with the house band) about every two months or so.
What do I play? Drums since 1978, and bass guitar since 1997. My experience on drums combined with the 3 years of guitar lessons I had in high school combined to make the transition into bass almost natural, especially without taking any bass lessons. So when asked, "Which do you like better, bass or drums?" I say, "It depends." But the other question less-frequently asked is, "Which would you consider as your primary instrument at this point?" That is a tougher question for me to answer as I would consider them both on equal footing within me with respect to a combination of skill, ability, mobility, creativity, direction, and expression. The only aspect where bass would win is in the fact that there is much less equipment to haul, set up, break down, and pack up.
So here's where it gets interesting.
What do bass and drums have in common?
1.) Both are rhythmic instruments. You would need the bassist and drummer to lock into each other to get a solid groove, without which, the band will sound horrible.
2.) They are both in a "non-leader" position in a band. In other words, you're pretty much at the mercy of whoever IS the leader, usually a guitarist and/or lead vocalist as they have their "creative sound" to which they are limited, but that is where the band direction is established.
3.) As either a bassist or a drummer, there's only so much playing by yourself you can do before getting bored if you're not practicing for an upcoming gig.
Given that I have deliberately entered parenthood, being the best daddy I can be is indeed my first and foremost responsibility. Musically, this has left me wanting a musical outlet without the commitment to someone else's project, schedule, material, etc. Add to it that parenthood takes a lot of energy, which makes weekly visits to the open jam on Monday nights that much harder to pull off (more so than my age).
So, what am I to do? Transition into another instrument. Which one? Did I mention I took guitar lessons in high school? While I still have my electric guitar from those days (a 1983 Gibson Challenger II), I opted to dust off an acoustic/electric Yamaha FGX412c I bought in 1999 and started playing it around the house. My daughter LOVES it. I'll play "Old MacDonald Had a Farm", "Eensy Weensy Spider", etc. As I kept playing it, I got better at it (it's called practice, duh!), but I still have a long way to go before I would consider myself even near 1/10th the level of where I'm at with bass or drums. Yet, I'm pressing onward.
Last year I played at a music festival called the
Stonewall Reception in Dayton, ME. I played bass on the acoustic stage with Shane Bediz and Friends, bass on the electric stage with the Funk Yard Dogz, and drums on the electric stage with
Ol' Brown Shoe. I became known as the "Warren Haynes" of the Stonewall Reception, as in it seemed like I was playing with everyone as Warren would do at Bonnaroo or Gathering of the Vibes.
This year at the festival, it's different. The Funk Yard Dogz are not in the line up, Ol' Brown Shoe finally have a new permanent drummer (after I respectfully left upon entering parenthood), and it looks like Shane Bediz won't make it this year (unless I can twist his arm). Add to it that the electric stage time slots are already filled.
So here I am, wanting to play the festival, but have nobody to play with.
So here I am, playing more acoustic guitar.
So here I am, listening to "Not For Kids Only" by Jerry Garcia and David Grisman more and more for inspiration as I play more acoustic guitar.
So here I am, knowing that the Stonewall Reception's producer/host, Jason Lees, loves "Not For Kids Only" and has a couple of time slots available on the acoustic stage.
So here I am, suddenly committing myself to the acoustic stage, picking the songs, and singing them, all the while on what would techically be called my tertiary instrument (not even my secondary instrument)! I must be crazy!
Well, I can always back out, but I won't. So I've tapped a couple of friends of mine to join me on their secondary instruments, one on the mandolin, the other on violin.
And I've decided to share the progress in a blogospheric enviroment where 500 million internet users can read about it and not care one little bit. I hope you find this a little entertaining at the very least.